Take My Online Course “Mastering the BJ: Interactive Skills”


I have been so busy in the last year working on a project that I hope you’ll enjoy! I teach a class at Self Serve Toys in Albuquerque, NM called “Mastering the BJ: Interactive Skills”

It is one of the most popular classes we offer, so I figured it’s about time to have this class online so we can share the love with everyone who isn’t able to attend an in-store class. So, without further delay, here it is via Vimeo!

Religion and sexuality, a new view part two — from Georgetown University Press blog


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Catholic Cross Jesus (Photo credit: TheChristianAlert.org)

Here is the second part of a two-part series from Georgetown University Press blog on the future of sexuality and religion. Too see part one, click here

Proposing a Renewed Catholic Understanding of the Sexual Person, pt 2.

Religion and sexuality, a new view — from Georgetown University Press blog


Georgetown University Press blog presents a new idea on how you can be religious and sexual, without feeling shame.

The blog published a two-part series investigating and proposing some great ideas that anyone of faith might find interesting.

Darkest side of feminine nature, I guess.

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Orgasm infographic!


I’m kind of a nerd for infographics, and kind of nerd for orgasms. So you can only imagine my delight when I stumbled upon innovative sex toy company Jimmy Jane’s infographic about orgasms!

If you want to purchase a JimmyJane toy (and let’s be honest, you probably do), visit Self Serve’s website here.

You can also check out a great YouTube video demonstrating the awesomeness that is the Form 3.

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P1050484 (Photo credit: violet.blue)

Jimmyjane Ten Facts About Orgasms

The value of dirty thoughts


Mind before matter is an appropriate saying for this post. If you want to have more sex, a good way to start is to think sexy thoughts throughout your day.

Bachelor Girl (1954) ... How the Vibrator Came...

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One Catholic reconciles religion, sex and birth control


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Don’t diss it if you haven’t tried it.

That’s one message I came away with after reading Jo McGowan’s piece on CommonWealMagazine.com. But McGowan made several other interesting points about the birth control debate in the Catholic church. She herself is a Catholic and thinks the church’s stance on birth control is an example of juvenile thinking.

“One of the surest signs of youth—in any profession—is an unswerving adherence to literal interpretations,” she wrote. “New teachers cling to the curriculum, whether or not the class is getting it. Young doctors focus on the clear x-ray, unable to see the patient in front of them writhing in pain. Parish priests preach the letter of the law, while their parishioners refuse to follow rules created without reference to the reality they know.”

Another interesting point she made is that  one of the church’s major priorities is for you to procreate, which starts with sex. It’s crucial for people of faith to learn about sex and how it plays a role in your life and how it affects each person.

“It is unsettling when men who may never have experienced sex feel qualified not just to speak about it but to pronounce on it with certainty,” she wrote.

Each woman should decide for herself when she wants to have a baby.

See the full story here