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Question: I’ve had a lot of trouble with painful penetration so I just gave up on it. I’ve asked every gynecologist I’ve been to if something’s wrong and my last one finally found that my hymen was still partially intact. I’ve had sex with one man and they don’t have to use the ‘virgin’ speculum. I would like to enjoy sex that includes penetration. I only have sex with women and my partner and I have toys, but I have anxiety about penetration because I’ve always just thought it was painful and there’s nothing to be done. Any suggestions on how to make this less of a tense situation?