Ladies, it’s time to let go of your porn inhibitions

Published in the University of New Mexico’s student newspaper, the Daily Lobo, on April 14, 2010.

Cover of "Porn for Women"

Sex doesn’t have to take one form or be done one way, and neither should porn. But it seems that a lot of porn is produced and made a specific way and there isn’t much variation. You’ve got your stars, who are cast for specific traits, and you’ve got your plot (or lack thereof), and you have the specific intended desires of the viewer, such as lesbian porn or anal porn. But most mainstream porn producers are leaving out a key demographic: women.

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A crack of the whip can shake up a dull sex life

Great book! Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind...

Great book! Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex (Photo credit:

There is something about the word kinky that makes me blush every time I say it.

It’s a great word. Kink comes in many forms such as fetishes, paraphilias and plain old curiosity.

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