I just love these two! Have a sexual affair with yourself.
I am a fan of diversity. So if you want to build your relationship around you and one other person or you and multiple other people, as long as everyone knows about it, I think that’s awesome. But here’s a shout-out to good ol’ monogamy.
This post is from the Seattle newspaper the Stranger, where Dan Savage (co-creator of the ‘It Gets Better’ project) runs his sex-advice column. People write in questions and he answers them. This is from the Savage Love Letter of the Day.
Talking about sex before you have it increases the odds that you will enjoy the relationship, and the sex, to the fullest.