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Pregúntale a Self Serve: Eyaculación Femenina
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Pregunta: Soy una mujer que eyacula y en muchas ocasiones me pongo muy húmeda y no puedo mantener a mi pareja adentro. ¿Cómo puedo minimizar la humedad para que el momento no se interrumpa?
Respuesta: En primer lugar, queremos felicitarle por su capacidad para eyacular. Es algo que muchas personas quisieran lograr, es muy bueno que hayas descubierto cómo hacerlo. El squirting, como nos referimos en inglés, es el término coloquial que se utiliza para describir la eyaculación femenina. La eyaculación femenina se produce con frecuencia cuando el punto G de alguien está fuertemente estimulado y las glándulas de Skene se llenan de fluidos. Si se produce la combinación adecuada de estimulación, los fluídos son expulsados durante las relaciones sexuales y el orgasmo .
Muchas personas, incluyendo los profesionales de la salud, tienen información errónea sobre el punto G, por lo que vamos a compartir algunos conceptos básicos primero.
1) El punto G existe! Es un área en la pared vaginal frontal que tiene crestas/arrugas y en general goza de una presión firme.
2) Las glándulas de Skene es lo que produce la eyaculación femenina ya que se llenan de un fluido similar al fluido prostático. Al igual que la eyaculación masculina, la eyaculación femenina no es orina. Las mujeres no deben sentir vergüenza si eyaculan.
3) Algunas personas creen que el punto G y los orgasmos producidos por el punto G son en realidad la estimulación en la parte posterior del clítoris .
4) Si usted quiere conocer a su punto G, tenemos un montón de juguetes para la estimulación de éste. Algunos de nuestros productos más vendidos son el Njoy Pure Wand, el G Shift Jr. y el G-KI. Visítanos en la tienda si tienes otras preguntas sobre cómo divertirte con el punto G!
Ahora a tu pregunta, tal vez querrás conseguir una manta impermeable y hecha especialmente para personas que pueden eyacular. El Fascinator Liberator Throw es una manta resistente al agua que mantiene las sábanas secas, ya que el fluido no puede penetrar la manta. Para mantener a tu pareja “adentro” recomiendo que revises almohadas hechas específicamente para las posiciones sexuales. Las almohadas Liberator son lo suficientemente firme como para darle el soporte necesario a tu cuerpo para mantener una buena posición que provea una sensación más apretada o estrecha para tu pareja. También puedes buscar un juguete de ejercicios de suelo pélvico. Fortalecer el suelo pélvico puede ayudar a mantener el control de lo que tus músculos hacen durante el sexo. Si deseas crear una sensación más apretada o estrecha, contrae los músculos del suelo pélvico al intentar diferentes posiciones para obtener el ajuste que deseas.
Y por último, a veces el sexo viene con interrupciones. Si el sexo se interrumpe y no pueden volver a lo que estaban haciendo, prueba algo diferente! Si la penetración no se siente fantástica en algún momento, trata sexo oral o manual por un rato.
Pero por lo general cuando se trata de sexo, mientras más húmedo, mejor!
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Question: Is it ok that I want to masturbate even though I’m in a relationship? I’m worried my partner gets jealous. We wish we had sex more often, and sometimes it feels like cheating.
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Ask Self Serve – When Penetration is Painful
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Question: I’ve had a lot of trouble with painful penetration so I just gave up on it. I’ve asked every gynecologist I’ve been to if something’s wrong and my last one finally found that my hymen was still partially intact. I’ve had sex with one man and they don’t have to use the ‘virgin’ speculum. I would like to enjoy sex that includes penetration. I only have sex with women and my partner and I have toys, but I have anxiety about penetration because I’ve always just thought it was painful and there’s nothing to be done. Any suggestions on how to make this less of a tense situation?
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A fun, on-going project I’m working on with Self Serve
I have a really awesome job, and recently at my really awesome job, we started a question-and-answer column called Ask Self Serve. For those of you who don’t know, Self Serve is a comfortable, education-based sex shop nestled in Albuquerque’s Upper Nob Hill.
Ask Self Serve is a (hopefully) informative, funny, honest and tender sex advice segment that we publish online at selfservetoys.com as well as in The Weekly Alibi. My colleagues and I have spent a lot of time finding questions, coming up with answers compiling them into a short and sweet sex-positive nugget, for erotic information. Here is the first one!
This is the first edition of a regular feature where you can ask Self Serve staff any question via email, Facebook or writing it on a slip at the store. It’s a way for us to provide information on a variety of subjects that people may not want to ask a doctor or a friend. Some of the questions and answers will also appear in The Weekly Alibi.
If you have a question, send it to us at askselfserve@gmail.com.
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Question: My friend and I enjoy oral and vaginal intercourse. However, we sometimes need a lubricant for doing vaginal, and when we return to oral the lubricant has an unpleasant taste. Do you have any flavored lubricants?
Answer: A roll in the hay with a friend should not leave a bad taste in your mouth (physically or metaphorically). And you are right – most lubes taste awful. The main ingredient in most water-based lubricants is glycerine. Glycerine is a sugar, and sugar plus sex can cause problems, such as increased likelihood of getting a yeast infection in those with vaginas (not the best parting gift for a friend you care about). Lubes with glycerine are also often overly sweet and will feel sticky to the touch. Unflavored lubes without glycerine can also taste bad because they have no sweeteners. Luckily we carry several flavored, water-based lubes that are glycerine free, all natural, and delicious. Strawberry Pomegranate is our most popular. Flavored lubes are ideal for all kinds of sex and are likely to keep your mouth happy while you lick and tease your partner. Silicone lubes are also a great fit for the kind of fun you’re enjoying. They are odorless and tasteless and can even be used underwater. If you’re having a nooner, watch out because you’ll probably be slippery all day. The right lube is different for everybody so a visit to Self Serve with your sexy friend might be good foreplay for your next encounter. Tell us you read this column and we’ll give you a free flavored lube packet!Email your questions to askselfserve@gmail.com.
Questions are answered by Self Serve Staff and edited by Hunter Riley.
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