I offer a variety of classes, presentations, training opportunities, consultations and more. I love to work with people and find a win-win situation. Think of it as a build-a-bear factory for sex & relationship work. If you’re ready to dive in, you can book me at this link

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I offer private shopping either in person or online at

I can come to your house and do a private party or class of your choice with your friends

I offer training opportunities for medical providers and can give you a list of the places that have hired me in the past including the University of New Mexico Hospital (UNMH), the UNM Occupational Therapy Program, The New Mexico Strangulation Taskforce, Enlace Comunitario and many more.

I can do a presentation about sexual health, communication, consent, oral sex, gspots & squirting, handjobs, blowjobs, butt stuff, kink & BDsM, non-monogamy, group sex, threesomes and much more. You name it, I’ve probably presented on it before and would love to do it again.

You can also hire me to build an age-appropriate conversation to have with your child or teenager about their sexuality, relationships and more.

I do private consulting for people of all relationship statuses. If you want to start dating again or strengthen your existing relationships, I can help.


Hunter Riley is the manager of operations and outreach at Self Serve Toys, a sex educator, speaker and social media maven.


After earning degrees from the University of New Mexico in psychology, Spanish and journalism, she gained 5+ years of experience managing a feminist sex shop and talking to customers every day about their sex questions, challenges and successes. She understands that talking about sex can feel scary or intimidating. She helps adults find their voice and comfort level around conversations about sex and sexuality. She helps create an environment where people feel comfortable talking about sex if that feels right for them, and not feel ashamed if they prefer to be more private. She has taught workshops on pleasure, sex toys, communication, safer sex, consent, oral sex, kink, non-monogamy, birth control and more! Her background includes trainings and workshops about sexuality, relationships, masculinity, consent, sexual trauma, domestic violence, communication skills, body positivity and more!

Hunter has taught classes and workshops in English and Spanish at Universities, healthcare offices, sex week events, domestic violence prevention organizations and more. She has authored several sex columns for newspapers and online media outlets in New Mexico including the Daily Lobo, the Santa Fe Reporter and Albuquerque Free Press. She has partnered with organizations like Planned Parenthood, the University of New Mexico, UNM Hospital, Enlace Comunitario, Santa Fe Care Center and more. Her style is comfortable, approachable, friendly and fun, which leaves people feeling relaxed and empowered to explore their own sexual identity without feel ashamed of where they’re at. Her experience managing a retail sex shop, coordinating classes and events, creating groups for young adults interested in kink and non-monogamy and having an upfront and strong social media presence had given Hunter the credibility to have a presence in the sex education industry. Anyone interested in hiring Hunter or learning more about the services she provides can contact Hunter via email at for more information.

Updates from 2020!

It has been a *minute* since I’ve update this blog. I’ve been busy continuing to work for Self Serve Toys as their Director of Education and Outreach. I picked up a few more gigs doing work with and some other fun projects. I finally came back to this blog and realized I’ve changed and updated my perspective, language and thinking on so many things related to sexuality. I’m going keep all my old content up, because I like being able to see where I came from, but I just wanted anyone reading this to know that I’m growing and learning as a person, and that will hopefully be reflected in this blog.


My goal with this blog going forward:

I would like to use this blog to allow people to find some of my past work, find out if they want to hire me or work with me, and find resources they might want to share. Most of my updated work can be found on Self Serve’s blog.

Stay tuned, and if you want more up-to-date info about me and my work, you can follow me on