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Question: I’ve had a lot of trouble with painful penetration so I just gave up on it. I’ve asked every gynecologist I’ve been to if something’s wrong and my last one finally found that my hymen was still partially intact. I’ve had sex with one man and they don’t have to use the ‘virgin’ speculum. I would like to enjoy sex that includes penetration. I only have sex with women and my partner and I have toys, but I have anxiety about penetration because I’ve always just thought it was painful and there’s nothing to be done. Any suggestions on how to make this less of a tense situation?
Have you ever been watching porn and thought, I wonder what goes on when the camera isn’t rolling? How do the performers feel? What about the crew?
Well, don’t worry, because Swellcon has a video for that!
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Question: I’m contacting you about my interest in male chastity. I’m having issues meeting someone who I’m attracted to and likes the idea of male chastity. Any advice
for a guy?
Sexuality education as an industry seems to be on the rise these days. Everyone and their mother wants to be a sex educator, talk about sex, write about sex, etc. And I’m happy to count myself as one of those people. If you like learning about sex things, then strongly consider checking out Swellcon, a virtual conference on sex and media that was launched in August by the fine folks over at The Smitten Kitten.