Your pelvic floor is a group of muscles that supports organs, such as your bladder and bowels. It’s common for both men and women to have never heard of their pubococcygeus (PC) muscle before, but it’s very important for bladder control, preventing incontinence and it can make your orgasm more intense. If you’re in touch with your pelvic floor muscles you can more easily regulate your orgasm, which is great for men who want to last longer and for women who want control of their orgasm.
According to the Mayo Clinic, a woman’s pelvic floor muscles can be weakened by pregnancy, childbirth, age and being overweight.
“This may allow your pelvic organs to descend and bulge into your vagina — a condition known as pelvic organ prolapse,” according to the Mayo Clinic’s website. “The effects of pelvic organ prolapse range from uncomfortable pelvic pressure to leakage of urine.”
For men, pelvic floor strength can have great benefits. According to a 2004 study at the University of Bristol, “doing regular pelvic floor exercises achieved the same success rates as the drug sildenafil (Viagra) in improving sexual function in men.” It can also help regain control after a prostate operation.
If you want to exercise your pelvic floor but have no idea how, try going to the bathroom and if you can stop your urine mid-flow, the muscles you contract to do so are your pelvic floor muscles. For men, a great way to see your pelvic floor in action is to make your penis pop up momentarily. Both of these exercises involve a basic contraction.
Pilates, yoga and core strengthening exercises often pay attention to the pelvic floor, which can also be a good way to strengthen your kegel muscles.
Kegel exercise toys are becoming more popular. Most of them are marketed for women, such as Betty Dodson’s vaginal barbell. The idea is that you insert the stainless steel barbell and contract your pelvic floor muscles. That contraction will elevate the protruding end of the barbell. Once you gain more strength, you can make the exercise more intense by lifting the heavier end of the barbell while you insert the lighter end.
Pelvic-floor exercise balls are also gaining popularity. Two companies that I know of that make these toys are JeJoue and Fun Factory. The balls are designed for vaginal insertion, when the wearer moves around, such as dancing or cleaning, there is an inner ball that moves inside the ball that is inserted. That movement makes the wearer’s PC muscle contract, and hold on to the moving ball.
Pelvic floor exercises for men are listed here. Another exercise that helps delay ejaculation is to become aroused up to “the point of no return,” but don’t go past that point. Instead, hold a kegel contraction for 10 seconds or more and once the urge to come has subsided, release the contraction.
If you’re interested in buying any of the kegal exercise toys mentioned in this post, or if you want to take a Sexercise! class at Self Serve in Albuquerque visit Self Serve’s website.
- Lelo’s Luna Beads Help Women Flex Their PC Muscles Without Interrupting Their Everyday Lives (prweb.com)
- House of Bath offers Free Pelvic Floor Toner to its customers (femaleincontinence.wordpress.com)
- To Tuck or Untuck, That is the Question (tiawellness.wordpress.com)
A very cool photo series. Makes you want to do some yoga doesn’t it.
Take advantage of all the benefits masturbation has to offer! Orgasms, reduced stress, being a good teacher to your partner and many more.
What are the other benefits of masturbation? Leave your reply in the comment section if you are celebrating.
Is May really National Masturbation Month?
Is May really National Month?
San Francisco as a response to the forced resignation of then U.S.
Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders. Photo: CreativeCommons-macrophile
In case you were wondering, May is National Masturbation Month. The celebration of May as National Masturbation Month began in 1995 in San Francisco as a response to the forced resignation of then U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders.
After a speech at the United Nations World AIDS Day in 1994, an audience member asked Elders about masturbation’s potential for discouraging early sexual activity. She answered,“I think it is something that is part of human sexuality and a part of something that perhaps should be taught.”
That was the end of Elders’ career as America’s first black Surgeon General, but the spark for National Masturbation Month. Offended by Elders’ ouster, the ever progressive, pro-sex staff of San Francisco’s sex toy and education company Good Vibrations decided to find a way to keep the focus on Elders’ unjust firing, and to bring talk about masturbation into the mainstream in just the way Elders had envisioned.
Realizing that large number of folks lacked support and advice to help them enjoy the simple, basic act of masturbation, Good Vibrations sought to provide support, advice, and reassurance for people looking to open their own personal sexual horizons.
And so was born National Masturbation Month. Among the first steps Good Vibrations took was to promote masturbation as healthy, safe and natural way to express one’s sexuality, thereby removing much of the shame and stigma have so long colored the act masturbation.
So, is it true, as so many believe that masturbation is so commonplace, natural, pleasurable and healthy that “ninety-eight percent of us masturbate, and the other two percent are liars?” If so, why do we need an entire month to educate people on something they’re already enjoying?
The answer is twofold: First, to help those already enjoying themselves to delve further. Second, and most importantly, it looks like plenty of people might still benefit from some encouragement and education.
A recent cross sample study of American adults asked the question: “On average, over the past 12 months, how often did you masturbate?” Only 38 percent of women said they’d masturbated at all during the past year, while 61 percent of men had done so.
The data shows that young women seem to warm up to masturbation more slowly. The study showed women from 20- to 39-years old were the most enthusiastic masturbators, with women 18 to 20, and those over 40 masturbating less. The study is the subject of an excellent article by Journalist Michael Castleman in Psychology Today.
Earlier studies have shown that rates of masturbation are higher for both men and women with higher education, more frequent sexual thoughts, sexual experimentation before puberty, and more lifetime sexual partners. Moreover, masturbation has documented physical benefits for both men and women, to say nothing of likely emotional and psychological benefits.
Health Benefits for Men
A 2007 article in Sexual and Relationship Therapy notes that masturbation may help men improve immune system function, build resistance to prostate gland infection, promote overall prostate health. Moreover, Australian researchers have shown that frequent masturbation may lower a man’s risk of developing prostate cancer.
A survey of men found the more frequently a man masturbates between the ages of 20 and 50, the less likely they are to get prostate cancer. In fact, those who masturbated more than five times a week were one-third less likely to develop prostate cancer.
These findings were the subject of a 2003 Doonesbury panel by Pulitzer Prize-winning Garry Trudeau. In the panel, one character alludes to masturbation as “self-dating.” Nearly half of the 700 papers which normally syndicate Doonesbury did not to run that strip, proving that public discussion of masturbation is still a thorny issue for some, and perhaps attesting to the need for an observance like National Masturbation Month.
Health Benefits for Women
Women who masturbate regularly increase their resistance to yeast infections. Masturbation helps women release pre-menstrual tension and other physical discomfort associated with menstrual cycles, like cramps. Masturbation increases blood flow to the pelvic region, which helps to reduce pelvic cramping and related backaches. Masturbation can also help to alleviate chronic back pain and increase a woman’s overall pain threshold.
Health Benefits for Both Men and Women
For both men and women, masturbation is the safest sex possible, with no possibility of sexually transmitted disease, or of unwanted pregnancy. It’s a great way to relieve stress, and release a nice flood of mood boosting endorphins. Masturbation is both a natural energizer, and a good way to help you sleep better, depending on the time of day. Lastly, masturbation helps to build stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can improve sexual performance and enjoyment. The benefits of masturbation for men and women is the subject of an excellent article for Fox News by Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright.
So, don’t just stand there, get out and celebrate National Masturbation Month. I’ll leave the details to you.
- Planned Parenthood Celebrates National Masturbation Month (practikel.com)
- Masturbation Stations (itsmindblowing.wordpress.com)
- Tis the Season for Masturbating (marissavelarde.wordpress.com)
- Masturbation Month (mocha.com.ph)
- NSWF: Have You Ever… ?! (cockyandrude.com)
This is why I love my job at Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center! Sorry it’s not embedded, but it’s worth the click, I promise.
- Diablo Widows Get Dildos in French Sex Shop Stunt [Nsfw] (kotaku.com)
- World’s most expensive sex toys (bornrich.com)
- Wooden Dildos Don’t Leave Splinters (dildographer.wordpress.com)
- Front Page News: The Pleasure Texts: Episode I (somethingawful.com)
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I can’t tell you all the ways I love the work that Tristan Taormino does. Now you all get to love her too on her new radio show “Sex Out Loud”
The show will take calls from listeners as well as host special guests to discuss a range of topics from BDSM to polyamory. The show airs on Friday at 8 pm EST but you can listen to older shows here. It’s great to have yet another sex-positive, educated person talking about sex, culture, politics and other important topics that many radio and TV shows don’t touch on.
The show is hosted on VoiceAmerica, so go check it out. You just might learn a thing or two.